Archive for the ‘Self Help Articles’ Category

Health psychology mental self help

Monday, June 29th, 2009

This body that helps us to achieve is our main feature we should always know the worth of having a good body. Not only a good but a healthy body too. A healthy body means a healthy life. You should always thanks god for bestowing you with these hands which enable us to carry our work and the legs which help us to get to our office. Their worth of a healthy body can be asked from those who dose not has it. In order to live a better life and a happy life, you should have the best of health and you should give you all importance to keep you health as fit as ever. No matter how much money you have but without proper help you can not buy any happiness. Money can not buy you the health if you have wasted it. Therefore always know the worth of you health and never be careless about it. Health is regarded as the key factor for being happy. It is found that people who do not have any disease live a much happier and tension free lives as compared to those who have some diseases. Therefore heath comes first in every matter.

If you do not have a good health you would not be able to live a good life. You will not be able to do a job and earn some dollars for you living. But health alone is not the key factor for having a good and a happy life. Another key and a very important life of living a happy life is your mental state. Some of us do not have a good mental state and we know how hard it is to live without it. Mental state is directly connected to the health. Without a proper mental state, you will never be able to live a healthy and a happy life. Your body parts will not work properly. Mental conditions are to be perfect in order to live a happy and a successful life. You can keep your mental state healthy by not taking too much depression for certain things and always believing in yourself. Remember this is you most prized possession. Without a proper and a good mental state a person no matter how good looking he is, is nothing more then a walking body only. Do realize the importance of mental and physical heath for your own sake.

Financial self help

Friday, June 26th, 2009

Finance is something now which was not when the world came into being. But as the world is becoming smaller and smaller, the need for finance is developing or basically that finance is becoming the requirement.

Health, happiness and wealth are the three things which if a man has, and then it would be known as prosperity. Prosperity is what a man tries to accomplish all his life, after when he steps in to the professional environment. For a lot of people world is money and money is world. What they care about is how to have the most and the maximum.
But if a person sees it with a different angle, he would realize that a person who helps himself to achieve prosperity is actually helping himself out to have a comfortable living.

Now days when commodities are increased at a very large scale, man have to coordinate with his expenditures. A man whatever earns, does it for himself or may be the dependants. So he has to keep an account for what he spends, how much he spends and where he spends.

Every person is this world wants to help him so that he could get the best out of life. Helping your own self, to get money power and respect does not come in selfishness, but this is the standard of living these days

Capitalization is another thing that a person would go for, as our lives are so short lived and a person gets old by the age of fifty. This is the time when he does not have that much strength to help himself in regards to earn. So before reaching the age of fifty, every sensible man would want to be very sound financially so that he can take care of the family.

And last but not least, one should keep this thing in his mind that though the circle of finance exists in the social society where he lives, but the sovereign power is in the hand of God. Only he can make the things possible for man in all walks of life weather it’s related to health, wealth or happiness.
So one should just keep this in mind, whether he works for himself and is his own boss, or some one else, no matter what and how much he earns, he would have to get buried in the end and all that he has collected will not go with him.

Attack heart self help

Tuesday, June 23rd, 2009

We plan our life everyday. We think about where we would like to see ourselves five or ten years later. We plan everything accordingly. But we never know when our life ends and that is a fact. There are many ways of dying. This is un known to a man that how will he die. You may die in a car accident or you may fall off from you roof or you can even die due to a disorder in your body. Yes that is true. The most common way that people die of is heart attack. For centuries we have known that what e heart attack is. Ask a kid from 3rd grade and even he can tell you that what exactly a heart attack is. You can never have a guarantee about your heart. You never know when it will stop working. But still you have to live your life. You should thank God for the life he has given to you and you should not be worried about the heart 24/7. But you do have to keep a track about the conditions of your heart. Heart attack is the most killing disease that can happen to you. It is not exactly a disease. It is more like a dysfunction of the body which causes the normal work to stop.

Heart attack causes severe pain and you stop breathing. There are many symptoms of an heart attack. You should keep these things in mind in order to help yourself against an heart attack. These are;
* Pain in the left arm (if you feel severe pain in your left arm. Then do not wait and rush to a doctor quickly. This happens when the arteries start blocking. This results in an severe heart attack)
* Pain in the neck (if you are felling a constant pain in your neck since last 2 days and it is still there with the same intensity then do not wait and rush to a doctor)
* Pain in jaws (this is un-known to many people. Even pain in jaws is related to the heart. If you have ever felt any or feeling it then please go and see your doctor\)

If you are alone and you have got a heart attack, you can still help yourself by taking in deep breath and coughing severely this helps the heart to keep pumping. This is a very simple yet a very useful tip that people should know.

Arthiritis self help

Tuesday, June 23rd, 2009

Arthritis is the most painful disease that can ever happen to a person. Arthritis is actually the disease which causes the gaping in joints. There are thousands of joints in our skeleton. Our legs, our arms, our neck our stomach, there are thousands of joints. Arthritis is the process where by the joints are caused to move away from each other. A gap forms in between the joints and this causes severe pain. The intensity of the pain is killing. At times this is unbearable. Sometimes it makes you forget all your other worries. This can only be known by people who actually undergo this pain. Arthritis is most popular among women. This is normally caused due to no physical activity. But this alone is not the only factor for arthritis; there are hundreds of others as well. You need to know all of them in order to deal with this disease. As I mentioned it is more popular among the middle aged women. There is no proper medication of arthritis which can fully recover the gaps formed in between your bones but there are still few measure and few useful points which you can do in order to prevent the expansion of arthritis in your body.

An arthritis patient relying on another person for help never makes sense. You can not and simply never rely on other person to help you from arthritis. Arthritis has a very severe affects but you can still cope up with arthritis by using some helpful medicines and doing physical exercise. Remember that you should never just give up everything once you are prone to arthritis. You have to help yourself and giving up and surrendering ios no help. You should never stop moving around. Especially keep you hands and legs moving. If you do not do much physical activity then the arthritis will spread at a far greater speed. You will not be able to recover from it and the pain will be even more intense. So never stop moving. Arthritis can only be dealt by helping yourself. Do not rely on others since they can never help you in this case. You have to be very precise about the way you deal yourself. Never do pity and never think that this disease can never be cured. Every disease is curable. Just teach yourself that nothing is impossible and that you have to achieve it for a better tomorrow.

Alcoholism self help

Friday, June 19th, 2009

Addiction basically means to get immune of some thing, some thing with out which a person does not get satisfied and he needs that element of addiction at every time of his life. Addiction can fall in to many categories, it could be for drugs, which may include medicines, cocaine, or it could be for television, sleep, travel, eating, or drinking.

When use of anything exceeds more then your needs and when a person would want to reduce the need of that addicted thing, this becomes very difficult. That is why it is known as addiction.
In case of alcoholism, it has a lot of disadvantages, which are physical and psychological.

Alcoholism makes a person alcohol dependant and for which there might be reasons like physical, mental, emotional and spiritual and at the same time all these reasons become the consequences for the addict. There are several rehabs for these kind of people so that they can get rid of these drinking problems, but the problems lies in the fact that the body of that particular person gets so much addicted to the percentage of alcohol that he can not stop his habits of drinking.

As the self help is the only concept which makes a person successful in every regards of life, weather is its money related, happiness involved or any other thing. In the similar manner self help can serve as the cure for this problem.

Any person who is an alcohol addict or alcoholic, he himself will be held responsible for being in that position, because this is a free world, where a person can do what ever he wants to, so if a person had reach to a point where he can not stop his habits which are harmful for him, there must be a definite start to all those habits, which for sure is initiated by man himself, on the basis of self help.

People start using alcohol, they enjoy it , they try it every day, and then there comes a day in there life when they realize that there is no way out without this, tough there are rehabs present to make people get rid of their addiction. But when a body gets addicted to certain percentage of alcohol, it becomes very difficult, even for rehab programs to bring that person back on track, unless the person himself have the courage to do so. So in this matter the concept of self help would be the only thing which could help that person out, as it has helped the man ever since.

Self esteem help

Friday, June 19th, 2009

Most people’s feelings and thoughts about themselves fluctuate somewhat based on their daily experiences. The grade you get on an exam, how your friends treat you, ups and downs in a romantic relationship-all can have a temporary impact on your wellbeing.

Your self-esteem, however, is something more fundamental than the normal “ups and downs” associated with situational changes. For people with good basic self-esteem, normal “ups and downs” may lead to temporary fluctuations in how they feel about themselves, but only to a limited extent. In contrast, for people with poor basic self-esteem, these “ups and downs” may make all the difference in the world.
People With Poor self esteem Often rely on how they are doing present to determine how they feel about themselves. They need positive external experiences to counteract the negative feelings and thoughts that constantly plague them. Even then, the good feeling (from a good grade, etc.) can be temporary.

Healthy self-esteem is based on our ability to assess ourselves accurately (know ourselves) and still be able to accept and to value ourselves unconditionally. This means being able to realistically acknowledge our strengths and limitations (which is part of being human) and at the same time accepting ourselves as worthy and worthwhile without conditions or reservations.

Our self-esteem develops and evolves throughout our lives as we build an image of ourselves through our experiences with different people and activities. Experiences during our childhood play a particularly large role in the shaping of our basic self-esteem. When we were growing up, our successes (and failures) and how we were treated by the members of our immediate family, by our teachers, coaches, religious authorities, and by our peers, all contributed to the creation of our basic self-esteem.

Self -esteem is Largely developed during Child Hood.

Healthy self-esteem includes. Being praised for something positive, being listened to , being spoken to respectably, where as Low self-esteem includes, Being Criticized harshly by parents or teachers,being beaten..

Before we can begin to improve our self-esteem we must first believe that we can change it. Change doesn’t necessarily happen quickly or easily, but it can happen. we are not powerless! Once we have accepted, or are at least willing to entertain the possibility that we are not powerless, there are three steps we can take to begin to change our self-esteem:
1:, BY giving message to our mind that we can change it.
2: taking help from others, (Feed back)..From friends or family..
3:Avoiding any one who tries to target our self-esteem.

Self help cocaine addiction

Thursday, June 18th, 2009

Cocaine is a pure chemical in other words it’s known as cocaine hydrochloride. It is the most addictive drug, which affects directly to brain. The most common way to use it is through nostrils, by the means of sniffing. From the nostrils it goes directly to the brain, as the nostrils are in direct link with the brain. So one can well imagine if how much damage it causes and how addictive it could be.

It is one of many drugs on the market today that if you have an addictive personality then make sure that you do not try cocaine. There is eighty percent chance that you would like it and want to try it again. If this happens then it means you are heading towards addiction.

People come to use drugs so that they can get away from the real world so that they can forget about there miseries and problems which they face in reality. So by the means of drugs they think that they are helping themselves, by getting away from there problems, which they know well that this way they sure do get away from the problem but that’s just imaginary or temporary or for a very short period of time. Because as soon as they get back in real world they realize that the problem they had is still there, and then they have to take support of the drug, which then becomes the need of that person. In other words we can addiction. This is not at all a lucid way to self help.

In order to get over with this addiction, I don’t believe that any one can help such sort of person. It’s the person itself who have to initiate towards his strong will of not doing it. If people can self help them self towards this addiction then there is a way out for this thing which is also self help. But this time this would take more will power then it took previously when they went in to the addiction for this deadly drug.

If this thing is not stopped at the right time then cocaine addict might end up loosing there life of a permanent mental disability. So the key to successful life is to get rid of everything which is additive for the human body, as what ever is addictive has a great number side affects like irritability, mood disturbance, restlessness paranoia and auditory hallucinations.

Anxiety depression self help

Thursday, June 18th, 2009

Many times in our life such events happen which force us to go into very severe kinds of mood swings or at times they can also be personality swings. There are many times in life such events happening around us which changes the direction of our life altogether. They change the pattern of our life so quickly and so fastly that we never understand about what actually happened to us. This is more like an ant carrying a grain of sugar for their queen when suddenly you put you finger and the ant has to move or turn around. Or have you ever judged an ant’s behavior? Have you ever seen a group of ants carrying food and if you step you foot in two of them the rest will drop their food right there and cause a stampede. They will look for places to run in utter confusion. That is regarding the ants only but we human are no wiser then the ants in regards to life. We know that its god who created us and that it is in his hands that he can do whatever he wants to do with us. Therefore some times such events cause us to give up all hopes from life.

The very popular case of giving up hope is when you loose your loved ones. Imagine that you just married the person of your dreams and just as you started enjoying your life, you partner got in a car accident and he is no more here. That must be something more then shocking. You might go into depression and anxiety. Anxiety and depression are two states where people do not take keen interest in their life and loose every hope abut their lives. To them nothing looks good and they do not seem to have any point of living this life. All they think about is nothing! They are too pre-occupied with the thoughts of their loved ones and other stuff that they can not think about any other thing. If you are a person who is a severely effected from anxiety and depression then do not give up. This life won’t stop and it would not wait for you. All that you should do is that you should try to keep yourself busy in things like job and you should spend maximum time with friends and never stay alone. Help yourself to overcome this anxiety and depression.

Marriage self help

Wednesday, June 17th, 2009

As soon as a kid grows up and gets done with his or her teen age. Their priorities change massively. As soon as you reach this age your world changes altogether. When you are a child you always imagine about the adventures that you can do. While sleeping at night you think of the new video game that you friends father got him and you pray to god to get you that video game to you on your next birthday. Your life starts revolving around the video game only. You come to your mom and tell her how good the game is. Even though most of the mothers never have an interest in the video games but they still listen to you. Then when you grow up and reach your teenage your priorities take a turn. Games and other stuff is no more your priority. You start taking interest in other things like making new friends and enjoying life. Sometimes you get off the track and indulge in some un-fruitful activities. But as soon as you realize that they are nothing more then a stake you back off! You often find your partner and you think that you have found the perfect match, but its rarely like that. Very few teenage affairs turn into a marriage. Finally as soon as you get done with your teen, you get the responsibility of not only earning for you own sake but at times also for your family. You have to get practical and understand the facts of life. You have to be very fast. But making money and getting the best job is not that you are concerned with

A major part of you life is to find the best partner of your life. Sometimes most of us get involved with the teenage affairs to such an extent that after we break up with our partners we go into depression and we think of not marrying in life. This is a very radical approach. In reality you have to marry one day or the other. So you have to help you self to find a partner. Since it is your life so you are the best judge and you know what to do and whom to choose? So help your self to find a good partner. If you choose a person spend time with him/her before making up you mind to marry.

Self help

Wednesday, June 17th, 2009

Self help as indicated by the name itself means helping one’s own self. Now in this world there are different type of people which vary from each other on the basis of mentality, thinking, culture tradition and different backgrounds, so they have totally different way of thinking from every other living being.
But when a person tries to help him or herself out, there would be certain number of things which would matter in his/her way of thinking, like the knowledge that person have, the believe in the strength of his own self the core values and above all the believe in Almighty.

Self help is all about being your self yet connected to others, like family and friends and at the same time keeping in mind the goal of life. Self help is being egoistic in order to be better towards others. To think about yourself 1st helps you realize your qualities and drawbacks and emphasize on how you should behave in relation with others. Self help plays a very vital role in success of every person, as it helps getting rid of any sort of problems a person have, problems faced by his own self and others.
As there is one phrase which says “those who help themselves god helps them”.
This is a true fact, that a man who tries to take care of his problems or issues, God helps him in a manner that the success comes his way.

Self help does not mean just to take care of ones self; it actually is a very wide terminology which of course plays its part in career building as well. A part from career building, in every aspect of life, self help leads towards a successful way out from any sort of problem.

In this world, there is no one who could be called as a perfect person, every one has some
Faults in them, which do not mean at all that the person is suppose to live his whole life
With all those faults in him. There could be mental trauma, some allergy, addiction,
Jealousy and much more. So as I mentioned earlier that God helps those who try to help
Themselves, so he who have a goal in life and wants to succeed, would have to undergo
The process of self help, with the help of others.


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